Some time ago my training in Ahmedabad We rented the hall of the institute to Amway leader Rashmiben Agnihotri to organize our event. Appy got angry. Actually, my program was scheduled to take place that day in this hall, but my office staff was somewhat confused about the date. Left, and he devoted that day to Rashmibe for organizing his program. I had no idea about this at all.
Then two days before the program, the person in charge of renting my office hall suddenly I realized that on this day Dr. This is Adhiya’s program only. A massive scam has taken place. What to do now? He got worried and then without talking to me he informed Rashmiben, “Sorry, tomorrow There is a power cut throughout the day so we cannot give you the hall, you have to submit your programme. It will have to be done somewhere else.”
Rashmiben was stunned. What strange situation would be created if someone suddenly canceled the hall like this? How many people have you invited? What happens to me? Whether another hall will be available immediately or not. These people are in trouble. Then Rashmibe called me and asked, “Sir, will you have no light there for the whole day tomorrow?” There is no such alternative arrangement for the generator?
Then I replied, “Cam? What happened to the lights? The lights are on all day long and so is my program.” ” Then he said with surprise, “No, sir – tomorrow we have a program in your hall. There is no electricity from there, tell me Amaru, I canceled the booking yesterday itself so I will call you.”
I immediately got the idea. That our staff made a mistake in the date while booking the hall and spoke wrongly to this organization, my To save the programme, his booking was cancelled. And I was not even informed.
I immediately explained the mess of the whole thing to Rashmiben, accepted the mistake of my staff, the staff person He admitted that he had spoken wrong and also apologized for it and said to him – “You are not worried at all. Don’t do it. The hall will be open to you only. The mistake was on our part. You don’t have to suffer. my program i no Do it in the other hall. You hold your program in our hall as usual.”
Then the person from our staff who had spoken wrong was called and strictly interrogated. He said that if something went wrong then why didn’t you inform me? Why did you say wrong? And then I also talked to Rashmiben and asked her to say sorry.
Rashmiben was shocked. Their work was done and we accepted our mistake and apologized, in return our place in their eyes was improved. Got higher. He also thanked us very heartily.
If we want to maintain pleasant relations with people and always want good cooperation from them, then When we make a mistake, we should accept it immediately. This not only avoids conflict but also proves that we are good people.
Many people make mistakes twice. When one makes a mistake and then admits that mistake. Perhaps people don’t care about our mistakes as much as they do about accepting our mistakes. Almost everyone makes mistakes, but when a person accepts his mistake, That person disappears from our sight.
When we accept our mistakes, we get many benefits. Let us talk about three of these main benefits.
Benefit 1: When we admit our mistakes, the other person more often forgives us. And we are saved from possible adverse consequences.
My son Nimish bought a new house in New York, America. We had to move things to the new house so we rented a truck. There is a custom there that when a truck is given to you, it fills its entire tank with petrol and then you When you return the truck, you will fill it with a full tank. We had rented the truck till five in the evening. We were late in changing our luggage. After exchanging our luggage, we went to return the truck to Pachi in the evening. We had fifteen to twenty minutes. And petrol still remained to be filled. If it became late by five o’clock, then the fare for the next day would have to be paid. Nimish was driving the truck, I was sitting beside him. In his attempt to reach Raghavat quickly, he rammed his truck into a one-way lane. However, after some time I realized that we had made a mistake. The very next minute I looked at Arisa and saw a police vehicle following me.
Within a few minutes the car came and stopped in front of the truck. Stopped our truck. Nimish came down and accepted his mistake with a true heart, and told the truth, The police did not fine us, instead they took us to the nearest petrol pump. We thanked him and bid him farewell.
If we come face to face and admit our mistake, then the person in front has little interest in punishing us. If the person in front of you wants to say harsh words to you for your mistake, then you yourself If you start saying something, start hitting yourself, then the other person’s weapon is hidden. Then there is nothing left to say.
Benefit 2: When we admit our mistake
Then we will be able to free ourselves from guilt. Made me happy. Suppose we have made a serious mistake in a relationship with someone in the family. We may not accept the mistake, but our conscience knows that we have committed the mistake. And the knowledge of having made a mistake creates a feeling of guilt in our unconscious mind. Which does not come above the surface but remains inside and gives us trouble. Due to the denial of many such small mistakes, this unconscious feeling of guilt grows and gets worse. And prolonged guilt also invites dangerous diseases in the body. When we accept our mistake, the feeling of guilt remains momentary. We can get free from it immediately.
Benefit 3: When we admit our mistake
Then we become awakened. The fact that we have accepted our mistake shows that we have woken up. And then this awareness also prevents us from making another mistake. Most of the errors occur due to carelessness. Inattention is a kind of sleep. Accepting our mistakes wakes us up from this sleep.
So when you make a mistake, accept it. Accept immediately.
If we had never committed any mistake, the society would have established us in the temple. And if we are not sitting like a god in the temple now, then we should think about what our Have we not accepted our mistakes yet?
We should only use negative words for a person who does not accept the consequences of his mistakes. Let’s remember that. (The reasons are not such that can be written here) Now if we accept our mistakes, then how many Avoid receiving the gift of negative words? Is there a fourth advantage…??
It is really sad that a person has to go to live in a nursing home at the last age of his life. But do all the old people living in old age homes end up in old age homes only because of the mistakes of their children? Is it? Do only sons and daughters-in-law have speech? This may not be the case in every case; however, if we ask the elderly, how many people will actually admit their mistake? Admit to being? It is a question worth thinking about.
Hey, think for yourself too, ‘Have I made any big or small mistakes while raising my children? What caused him harm? If I have made such a mistake, have I ever acknowledged it? If I haven’t done it then what should I wait for? Should I not make this agreement? Don’t I feel light by doing one? Shouldn’t the love and respect received from the child be doubled? If possible, this agreement should be made today itself.
I have a new book, its name is ‘EKRAR‘. This book will also help you to concentrate easily. The purpose of this book is to help people agree without making them feel guilty so that May they live lightly and happily. The importance and benefits of this book will be as big as any practical workshop.
It is said that, – “Even a fool can reject a mistake. A wise person is the one who accepts it.”
Minor family problems arise from denial of mistakes. Somewhere at the root of the wars ranging from difference of opinion to Mandi to Mahabharata lies the rejection of mistakes. Then why don’t people immediately accept their mistake? The reason is that it takes courage to accept good. And not everyone has this moral courage.
In Gandhiji’s autobiography ‘Satyana Anubhavno‘, he has accepted his mistakes, see them again and again. Will meet. What high moral courage he has displayed! Then the world will call him ‘Mahatma’! Ego is also afraid to admit mistakes. When we admit our mistakes, the biggest benefit we get is that we lose self-satisfaction. are found. So the mistake must be accepted. One should first go within oneself and then go outside. An effort should be made to understand the mistake, an effort should be made to understand the reason behind the mistake. Whether it has happened through knowledge or ignorance should also be verified. And that should be accepted.
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